There is a difference between having something and being entrusted with it.
I think that is one of the most important lessons stewardship has been teaching me lately.
Many of us hear the word stewardship and immediately think about money. Budgets. Giving. Resources. While those things matter, I have come to believe stewardship reaches much further than our finances.
Stewardship is how we care for everything that has been placed in our hands.
Our time.
Our energy.
Our relationships.
Our gifts.
Our influence.
Our health.
The truth is, not everything we carry belongs to us. Some things have been entrusted to us for a season, a purpose, or an assignment that is bigger than ourselves.
That realization changes the way we move through the world.
I used to think stewardship was mostly about being productive. Maximizing opportunities. Doing more with what I had.
Now I am learning that good stewardship is often about discernment.
It is knowing what to nurture and what to release.
It is understanding what requires your attention and what requires your boundaries.
It is recognizing that saying yes to everything is not stewardship. Sometimes it is fear. Sometimes it is the belief that everything depends on us.
That lesson has not been easy for me.
There have been seasons when I believed I had to hold everything together. Every project. Every responsibility. Every outcome.
But carrying everything is not the same as stewarding it.
Stewardship requires trust.
It requires trusting that we are responsible for our obedience, not for controlling every result.
I have seen this play out in my work, my caregiving journey, and even in my personal relationships.
The more I try to force outcomes, the more exhausted I become.
The more I focus on faithfully tending what is in front of me, the more peace I experience.
Because stewardship is not about perfection.
It is about faithfulness.
It is showing up consistently.
It is caring for what matters.
It is honoring what has been entrusted to you without allowing it to consume you.
And sometimes stewardship means resting.
Sometimes it means saying no.
Sometimes it means creating space.
No sometimes it means allowing others to grow into their own responsibility instead of rescuing them from it.
That can feel uncomfortable, especially for those of us who naturally care deeply about people.
But stewardship requires wisdom, not just compassion.
Village, perhaps the question is not whether you have enough.
Perhaps the better question is this:
How are you caring for what you already have?
What relationships need more attention?
What opportunities need more intention?
What boundaries need strengthening?
And what would change if you viewed every part of your life as something entrusted to you rather than something you have to control?
Because true stewardship is not about holding tighter.
It is about holding things with wisdom, gratitude, and open hands.
And sometimes that is where the greatest freedom begins.
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With thanks,
Asha Tarry, CLC…
